Sunday, January 8, 2017

'Tis the Season!

When referring to Christmas we often speak of it as being a season.  More than a single day.  In our family we like to put the Christmas tree and decorations up as soon after Thanksgiving as we can get to it. We begin listening to Christmas music the day after Thanksgiving. Its a fun time of year, with the anticipation and all, the good will that seems to pervade most of society, and the sparkle and excitement that fill any little kid that's around for Christmas time. Everyone has their favorite family traditions to observe that include insane and excessive baking, favorite movies to watch, service and visits to make, advent count-downs to do, treats and goodies to deliver, traditional meals and drinks to prepare and consume, caroling rounds to make, scripture readings and re-enactments to do, work, church, and other parties and performances to attend, and a host of other family traditions and practices to observe during the season.  Our family is no different.

As we reach the point of having three fourths of our children married, and over a dozen grandkids, we are exploring the new territory of observing and celebrating Christmas as an extended family, as in us with our kids and their kids.  As our kids marry, leave home, and establish their own family traditions, we are excited to be able to participate with them and their families in their Christmas celebrations and continuing to have them be a part of our Christmas celebrations.  Especially since right now most of them live relatively near by and are much easier to visit than it has been in years past when they were scattered across the nation and lived far away.

For the last several years, as kids have left home, putting up Christmas decorations have gotten down to just the two of us, with Brombeere engineering the majority of the decorating and me helping out here and there as assigned.  This year, however, we had lots of help.  We had Erdbeere, Heidlebeere, and Maulbeere and their families visiting for Thanksgiving so we decided to get our tree out while they were all here and enlist their help.  It was a lot of fun to see the kids getting excited and helping!
Maybe it was because it wasn't their own decorations so they were new and different.  Maybe it is that way anyway at their own homes because the tree and decorations are special and only come our once a year, but the kids were really exited to see and help put it all together and on the tree - it was a lot of fun!
I personally like lots of lights on the tree and since we had plenty of help we got lots on.  Brombeere had replaced a bunch of our lights that had worn out and quit working last year.
So, because we wanted to have the kids help before people started heading home, our tree went up two days after Thanksgiving, on that Saturday.  Then, because we knew we were going to be traveling for Christmas day, we had Schwartzbeere and Maulbeere back over again a couple of weeks later to open presents.  This was Duckie's first Christmas, which is always interesting.  At that age they don't know what they're supposed to be interested in and often are more taken by the wrapping and paper than the actual gift.
With lots of prompting, he got the job done.
While we could and have mailed gifts to the kids, its always so much nicer to be there and watch as they open their gifts.
So we sat around the living room taking turns opening gifts, a tradition from the family I grew up in that has been carried on in our family.
As seems to be normal, the littlest one got behind because he was too busy playing with the paper to be interested in opening anything.
Himbeere was there for the festivities, he cheered right up for the day.
Right in the swing of things.
The Maulbeeres were in on this "first opening".  Always the Christmas socks first.
That's another tradition at our house - socks first, then the gifts.
Despite the efforts of some, there are always some real surprises in the gift opening.
This year Brombeere got surprised a couple of times by the things she got.  It was a lot of fun to watch.
A nice "wreckage" picture - despite the efforts to contain the mess, by the end of the gifts there is always a mess.
That was it for opening gifts in the middle of December.  A couple of weeks later we were off to Moosebeere's house to spend a few days.
They had a really nice tree, lots of decorations, lots of presents, lots of anticipation among the kids.
Some found it hard to observe the "hands off" rules that usually accompanies Christmas.
As it was, we were there on Christmas day, which was a Sunday.  So present opening had to wait until after church.  But then it was full steam ahead!
Christmas is best with little kids.  They are so fun to watch!
They get so excited, especially the ones that are a little bit older and remember what its all about.
Young Miss E really wanted a "rainbow scarf" - she was so excited to see it!
The hat goes right on!
Nice to see I wasn't the only one taking tons of pictures.
Everybody was getting into the act!
Now I have some reading to catch up on.
After a Christmas session at Moosebeere's house it was back home to our own house and tree.
A few days after we got back from visiting Moosebeere, Blaubeere and her kids came over for the last Christmas session.
These presents had been sitting under our tree all the time we were celebrating with the other kids, just waiting for the time Blaubeere could make it over.
There's something to be said for spreading out the fun of Christmas.
By the time we got to this session of Christmas it had gotten to be so long since we wrapped the gifts that we had forgotten what some of them were.  Double the fun of opening them!
Bromeere, who does most of the gift shopping for the grandkids, does such a good job.
Its so fun watching each of the kids open their stuff.  They have such a variety of reactions.
All in all, it was another very good gift session.
There's a lot to be said for stretching out the Christmas season like this. This year we got to be there with all but two of our grandkids for a session of Christmas gifts. That was nice. I don't know if this year will turn out to be unique or if we will repeat it next year, or some other year in the future.  We'll have to see where the kids live and how it works out with taking turns between our house and the other side of each family.  But for now, this was a real fun year in which we got to see so many of our kids and grandkids as they celebrated Christmas and opened their gifts.  If the opportunity were to present itself again it would be worth doing again.

Saturday, January 7, 2017

On the Road Again!

Maybe its senility, but its getting to where we are doing our big traveling trips in the dead of winter these last few years. Used to be we would never do that, the weather was too unpredictable and a traffic stopping storm could really mess up our travel plans.  We've been blessed, though, and only had to stop because of the weather once in all our trips out west.  So this year, as soon as our departure date got on the long range forecast we began watching the weather, hoping and praying it would cooperate.  You don't have to worry about that in the summer.  When I first looked, our travel days looked clear and dry, that's a good thing. Unfortunately, the closer the departure day got the worse the weather prediction became, until the day we left it was two hours into a snow storm that was supposed to drop up to 6 inches of snow at our house.
So we figured out the route that would take us through the storm the quickest since a trip this far would take us through all but the biggest storms.  We went south a ways and then began angling southwest, aiming for I-80 instead of going straight west on I-90 before dropping down.  That added a few miles and minutes to the trip but we didn't expect to get all the way to Moosebeere's house in one day anyway.  Not this time, because we weren't able to leave until in the afternoon.  Our hope was to get all the way across Iowa before we had to stop but as it turned out we had to scale back our plans a little.  We went south and west, through Dubuque.  We came out the back end of the storm as we got to Cedar Rapids but the roads were still wet and slick enough that we still weren't able to go full speed.  So where we had hoped to get to Council Bluffs, we only made it to Des Moines.  Still, for the time of day we left, that was a good day's travel.
We got up bright and early the next morning and hit the road.  By now we were on interstate, which they always keep clear, so it was dry and we were finally able to go full speed.
There had been a little fog during the night so the trees and everything was coated with frost as we got on the road - very pretty.
We arrived at Moosebeere's house on Christmas Eve, in the early afternoon.  That night it snowed so we got to have a white Christmas.  That was nice.
Christmas day was a Sunday this year so the kids got to open a present on Christmas Eve.  Jammies, of course.  We also spent some time talking about the real meaning of Christmas and reading the Christmas story from the scriptures. Sunday morning we went to church before any more presents were opened. They had a nice Christmas program at church, after which they let out, skipping the other two hours of the normal block.  So we came home and opened presents.  The kids really liked that.
Christmas morning is best with little kids - they get so excited to open stuff and then as they see what's inside the presents.
Sometimes its hard to keep it moving - they want to stop and play with each thing as they open it.
They're so fun to watch!  We spent the rest of the day just playing with gifts, snacking on goodies (oh, so many goodies!), and visiting.  It was such a good day.
Monday Moosebeere had the day off for the holiday so we packed up the kids and went to a "play land" there in town.  All kinds of stuff for the kids to climb, jump, slide, and swing on.  They loved it.  When you first let them loose in a place like that they have to run from thing to thing, from place to place, to see what's there and give it all a try. Then they come back to the stuff that interests them and play some more.
This place had an upper level, stuff up there mostly for the littlest kids.
But there was stuff all over for all ages.  The rule at our house, as our own kids were growing up, was that if you weren't big enough to get on and make it go by yourself you were too small to play on it.  I think that encourages kids to stretch and try hard things.  So the kids were all over the place, with an adult nearby to "spot" them as they played.
We let them play for a couple of hours.
Lots of different things for them to play on - they tried it all!
Of course, even the littlest one had to keep right up with the older ones.
One of the funniest things was when he got in the little car by himself.  Who needs to use the door?  Just take the "overland" route and get in any way you can.  Whatever works.
They had a couple of little cars so even though there were lots of little kids running all over the place, each of our kids got to have a turn.
It was fun to watch them play.
They also had an area where the kids could paint.  Lots of paper to let your imagination loose on.
They also had a drying rack so once you decided your art work was done you could put it on the drying rack and do another one if you wanted.  They each did a couple.
Sweet Violet was of the opinion that the paint should go right to the very edge of the paper on all her work.  She did a good job.  It was fun to watch her.  You might not think so to look at it, but she was very careful in applying her paint to the paper.  Every stroke was applied with care and consideration.
Later there was a rousing game of Ring-Around-the-Rosey.
Followed by some London Bridges.  They laughed so hard!
There were also quieter moments.  Brombeere always makes it a goal to get the little kids to warm up to her.  Its a challenge with the littlest kids - they usually don't remember you when you first arrive so she works to get them be willing to go to her.
Because we were on the road this year, getting ready to go and closing out the school year, Brombeere didn't get her usual candy cane bread made before we left so she decided to make it at Moosebeere's house, with the grandkids.  That's always an interesting proposition.
They did really well, though, taking turns and following instructions.  That's nice because the better they are at following instructions the more you can let them help, which they really liked.
So they each got to take turns rolling out the dough.
And putting on the filling.
Violet even did a really good job of weaving the braiding on her's.  They made four of them so they each got to take turns working on two each.  Lots of fun.
The finished product - yummy as always!
We also spent a day at the local library, playing and watching a free movie they hosted.
They let the kids sit down front and set up chairs for all the parents that had come.  They even provided popcorn.  It was a fun time.
All too soon it was time to go.  The plan was to go as far as Heidlebeere's house and spend a day or two there.  Since that route took us passed Nauvoo, from the west side of the Mississippi River, we stopped to take a picture.  That was kind of nice, it was a pretty sight to see the temple.  You read in the church history about how prominent the temple was on the river and seeing it this way really brought that out - you could see the temple from a long ways away.
It was close enough that I took part of the next day and went back during the daylight for some more pictures.
Across the river from Nauvoo they have set up a little park, near the area where the Saints came ashore when they were crossing the river as they left Nauvoo.  Its not a big park, its more a small memorial with a couple of murals telling the story of how they built Nauvoo and then had to leave under such harsh conditions.  It was interesting.
Seeing just how wide the river was at that point brought out even more what a miracle it was that the river froze over enough to take wagons across.  On this particular day, where the temperature was just above freezing, the water was only frozen out 20 or 30 feet into the river.  In the picture above you can see the temple just to the left of the far left pole of the shelter.  That's a wide, old river.
At Heidlebeere's house it was New Years Eve.  She decided to make cookies for the celebration and Mr Z wanted to help.
Counting out eggs, he's getting pretty good at counting, that young man is.
Running the mixer is always a fun thing for little kids.
The finished cookies looked pretty darn good.  And they were really yummy, too!
As the evening progressed, little Miss R figured out how to take her jammies off.  She wasn't as good at getting them back on so she needed help with that part.
I know during the course of the evening I helped her get them back on three or four times.  I'm not sure how many times she got help from others.  But she was having a great time.
Eventually the night arrived and the party decorations came out!
We didn't actually stay up until midnight - maybe that's cheating but with the Internet now its real easy to find a video of the ball at Times Square in New York dropping and play that for the kids and then send them to bed at a decent hour, happy nonetheless.  Then the grown ups stayed up a little longer and visited.  But not too late.  After all, the next day was another Sunday and it would be up for church at the regular hour.  We must be getting old.

After church we hung around for a little while and then it was time to get on the road and head for home.  While its always a little sad when its time to leave when we go visit kids and grandkids, it is also nice to get back home after a road trip.  This was a good visit with both Moosebeere and Heidlebeere and their families and it was a good trip for the most part, as well.  The weather and the roads were clear and dry all the way home so we were able to make good time.  It was a good thing we weren't planning on staying any longer - there was a nasty storm predicted to move into the area the next day.  Its so nice to be able to go visit our kids so often!