Christmas This Year

I think, at least in part, our Christmases have gotten spread out, rather than happening on a single day, because our family has become spread out, geographically.  Maybe that combined with the fact that as the grandkids grow each of the kids have developed their own Christmas traditions and have come to prefer Christmas day to themselves.  That's perfectly okay.  I remember as a kid how I liked Christmas best when we spent it at home with just our own family.  Christmas afternoon or the following days were fine for visiting extended family but Christmas morning was best at home, with just us.

This year we knew Christmas celebrations were going to be scattered over several days so when the presents got wrapped, instead of going under the tree they got stashed in the corner, out of the way.

Then, in time for each "wave" of Christmas, we'd move the presents over to under the tree for whoever was going to be involved.  I thought it worked pretty nice, though it did leave under our tree looking pretty bare in comparison to other years.

It worked out well, I thought. Anyway, our Christmas celebrations began the weekend before Christmas; our first celebration with kids.  Himbeere and his girlfriend were here so we opened presents with them.

Yeah, the dog thought he had to be in the middle of it all, too.

Among the gifts was the customary chocolate orange.  Himbeere's friend had never seen one before, which was kind of amazing.  So Himbeere was more than happy to demonstrate how to open it and break the sections apart you give it a good whack on a hard surface.  Yeah, that put a smile on Himbeere's face.  She was kind of timid at first, in whacking her's so it took her a few tries to get it properly whacked.

It was a good time with them.  We all enjoyed it.  Everyone was happy with what they got, but mostly, we enjoyed the time together.

With just the four of us, it was a pretty quiet time.  Much less rowdy than when any of little grandkids are present.  But it was still a good start to the celebrations.

Just a few days later it was Christmas Eve.  After we went to bed the house was dark and quiet.  With just the Christmas tree lights on, the house has a nice, homey feel.  I like it.  Its a good time to reflect.

Christmas morning dawned as early as ever but we were in bed and missed it. Not since our second Christmas have we not had little kids to share Christmas morning with, to prompt us to get up early on Christmas morning.  Sometimes ridiculously early on Christmas morning.  But not this morning.  Not only did we sleep late but we showered and dressed first, as well.  A gloriously relaxed Christmas morning.  When the kids were still at home and little, they never let that happen.

Then we leisurely opened our presents to each other.

Christmas morning with just the two of us.  Except for a couple of presents from Maulbeere and Moosebeere, Christmas morning was just our gifts to each other.

It was a nice, quiet morning.  Unrushed and low-key.

It was nice.  When we were done we got to doing a few other things we wanted to get done before the next "wave"; our plan was to head over to Schwartzbeere's house to spend a couple of hours with them.  While we were getting things done, Moosebeere called.   His family has a tradition that any time we send anyone in their family a package they Skype with us so we can watch them open it.  That's kind of nice.  This Christmas morning was no different.

So we got to watch each of them open all the things we had sent them for Christmas.  Its so fun to watch them all get excited about their presents and open them.

While at our house it was quiet and calm with no kids, the Skype made obvious that at their house the kids were bringing their usual level of excitement and chaos.  It was fun to watch.

A little later in the afternoon we took off for Schwartzbeere's house to spend some time with their family.  More little kids, more excitement.  We arrived, visited a bit, and then the kids wouldn't be put off any longer; we got to the presents

Schwatrzbeere's youngest was little enough that she needed help getting into the festivities.  This was her second Christmas but she had been too young to remember last year and what this was all about.

The other two, however, remembered full well what was going on.  Especially with the reminder they had gotten earlier in the day with their own family.  So we set about opening presents.

Everybody opened presents . . .

. . . with lots of encouragement and help from the little kids.

Open one of your own, help someone else open theirs. Repeat. It was fun.

When it was all done and everything was open, the kids were pleased as could be - everyone had a good time.  We stayed for a really nice dinner and evening of visiting.  Alas, it eventually was time to head back home.

In the morning we set out presents for the next "wave".  The next wave was Erdbeere and her family.  More little kids, more excitement, more chaos.  They were staying for a few days, that was a really nice thought, especially since there had been so much going on all spring, summer, and fall that it felt like forever since we'd last seen them.

The kids were "patient" enough to let them get inside, bring luggage in and stash it in bedrooms, and catch their breath.  Then it was time for presents.

These kids were old enough that they knew the drill.  Hardly any encouragement was needed.

Some were faster at it than others.

Wrapping and tissue paper was flying, it was quick work.

It was a good time; once again it was fun with kids and grandkids.

When all the gifts were open we were able to sit and visit for a bit.  That was nice, too.

The next day it was off to Blaubeere's house for more festivities.  She had worked hard to be able to host the horde.

While the last touches of dinner were getting ready a couple of people got a game of Yahtzee going at the kitchen table.

After dinner everyone retired to the living room and some musical instruments came out so we could sing some Christmas carols.  It was kind of nice to see the musical talents being showcased, this was entertainment the old fashion way.

We had a guitar, a banjo, a violin, and some rhythm instruments going while everyone sang along.  Very nice.

The little kids were fascinated

The caroling was very pleasant.

One young lady was entranced by the violin . . .

... especially when she got to have a turn.  She loved plucking the strings.

Afterwards we hooked up with Maulbeere for a little while, including a stop for some dinner and more visiting.

And so there it was, wave after wave of good company, presents, and good times. Pleasant memories.  When it was all done the tree stood with nothing under it and the corner was empty. It was a very good Christmas. Given our situation, I'm not sure I'd have it any other way!